November 1, 2022: Halloween

Wednesday, November 2, 2022 · by kathy howe

Sam woke up tired so didn’t make to his 2 classes this morning but John had a great idea: Let’s go to Diddams and look at costumes so that got Sam out of bed and gave him a bit of energy. Yay.

John did comment that Sam was more tired than he’d expectedwhile they were walking around the store.

Sam rallied for the evening too and handed out candy to the throngs of kids who came by trick or treating. No joke: I bought over 1,000 pieces of candy thinking we’d give them out 3 at a time but thankfully John and Sam started out in Scrooge mode otherwise we would’ve been drained by 7:30 pm. And that’s not a good look.  We probably saw 500+ kids (which is high for us — need to ask the neighbors up the street: they take a census every year 👍🏼). It was hoppin’ and we love it!

Sam and John and Milo sat on our porch couch, along with Zack’s awesomely carved pumpkin, our ghoul, and 1 of the wolf skeletons that John and Zack had nabbed at Home Depot earlier in October.

Note: Milo does *not* like inflatable costumes. He was chill otherwise. 

Zack took off to trick or treat for a bit by himself and then go to the dog party (without the dog — this is often the case 🤷🏼‍♀️). But then it turned dark and we weren’t sure where he was and we didn’t have a return home plan. So I went to look for him. He wasn’t at the park. So my penguin costumed self walked around our neighborhood calling his name (later he said “I heard someone calling Zack.”  Ummmmm…..then why didn’t you answer. You know — call and **respond** — like Marco Polo. C’mon. 😂)

He did finally reappear, with 2 neighborhood friends, at our house.  No harm no foul — we were just a bit later than expected to our 2nd trick or treat destination with the soccer bros.

Sam took on the roll of costume critic too — but didn’t tell the kids his assessment — just gave them fewer candies 🤣.  Mostly he just had thoughts for the 13+ year old set, which he shared in the down moments, with John.

I love those tween/teen/caught in the middle kids — they are the best ones: they are in between, revisiting their childhood, wanting more candy, wanting to be a teen who doesn’t want to trick or treat.  It’s complicated. Who cares if they phone in their costume? Sam thinks he’s Simon Cowell (the 1.0 version from American Idol season 1). 😂

But he had a great time and we were glad he had the energy to sit outside and enjoy the festivities.

Happy Halloween y’all!

#FUleukemia

#TeamSam

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20 comments

nancy lublin · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
The dog is def not a fan of the blowup costumes. Lol!
kathy howe · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
🤣🤣🤣🤣. So sorry I missed your visit!
David Hornik · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Couldn't love that first photo more.
kathy howe · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
I know, right? 😂
Paulo Correia · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
I just think it's great a 17 y.o. still got dressed up as a Gateway computer... my 16 y.o. hasn't dressed up or trick-or-treated for a couple of years now... but he still rocks Monty the stuffed doggy, so I hold on to that... :)

I'd rather see kids who are pushing it costume and age-wise trick-or-treating rather than getting up to bad mischief. Bring 'em on!
Paulo Correia · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Also, nice Linux costume, ma!
(hi neighbor!)
Beth Howe · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Linux or Pingba :-)
kathy howe · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
😂
Anabel Pearson · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Lovely Halloween celebration !! Family time is priceless !! Sam definitely has your DNA.. photos capture amazing smiles! So glad Sam is making it through “ the Wall “ now onward to the finish line!! Mindset helps develop his GRIT ! Hope sam keeps on accelerating the healing momentum !! I’m sure he got his second wind from those trick or treaters ! Xoxo
Beth Howe · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Great family pictures and lawn decorations...All out for Halloween!!
Bryan Rollins · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Love love love the pics. And the color commentary by Sam!

Just to share what Halloween is like in Australia, I wasn't sure if any kids would come around (because it's not a big deal here) but at 5, these teenagers came by, and I had nothing, so they got $1 aussie coins. So then I ran to the store, bought a couple of tubs of lollies (Aussie word for candy) and then had a total of 3 visits the rest of the night.
shelley watanabe · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Next time your looking for Zack and holler his name… I’m hilopoing and imagining him shouting “polo”
shelley watanabe · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Hoping
Claudia Hung · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Omg. All family costumes for the win! 🥳well done.
Michelle Stewart · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
Laughing! James ran off one year in an unfamiliar neighborhood. It's hard to find your own kiddo in the throngs of trick or treaters, and he was genuinely perplexed about why I felt the need to find him. Haha! I'm so happy you all got to do Halloween together! :)
kathy howe · Tuesday, November 8, 2022
You had 4 to contend with — I only have 2. You win the prize! :). I was both happy that he was out there experiencing Halloween on his own terms and in a safe environment and also wondering about his lagging skills around time and planning and how all of that would sort out?
Jennifer White · Wednesday, November 2, 2022
I love those pictures so much! Especially the one of Sam in the cow costume in the chair looking at the camera like WTF? ha ha. Clever of John to realize the draw of Diddams and costume shopping. :) The story of Zack just wandering around and Kathy randomly calling out for him was hilarious. You are all so strong and brave and luminous! Thank you for sharing your lives and this journey with us. xxoo
kathy howe · Tuesday, November 8, 2022
John is great at so many things as you know — getting Sam out of bed was a huge win on Halloween.
Elizabeth Lilly · Sunday, November 6, 2022
Clever costumes! The candy squad looks kinda laid back ---maybe they weren't expecting 500 (!!!) children. I can't imagine having that many trick or treaters. So glad Sam felt better and was able to get in the spirit and enjoy the festivities! And I can see Kathy the Penguin bopping around the neighborhood looking for Zack. Glad he decided to reveal himself!
kathy howe · Tuesday, November 8, 2022
Thanks Elizabeth! It was a fun night — we always love Halloween and we are so grateful to live in our neighborhood that loves it as much as we do.