January 10, 2023: Fun weekend interaction

Wednesday, January 11, 2023 · by kathy howe

Sam has been playing soccer in this community since he was 5: AYSO, then Stanford Soccer club, then Palo Alto Soccer Club, then PASC plus Palo Alto High School soccer. He, knows. Everyone. Seriously. And it’s been super fun to watch him through the years and now at a point where all of his friendships and coaches and experience just shine. At Zack’s futsal (indoor soccer) game on Saturday, we ran into Coach Vava, who was the lead coach of the Stanford Soccer Club (not affiliated with the university, just uses the name). Vava is a great coach, a super charismatic and unusual guy, and he runs an amazing futsal program and I totally credit him for getting Sam (and now Zack) involved with futsal. Sam loved, loved, loved playing futsal — even more than soccer. 

It was fun to watch Sam talk with Vava — they’ve kept in touch over the years and exchange text messages with some regularity. In addition to running his club soccer program, Vava now coaches the soccer team of our cross town high school rival, Gunn High School, too, so they debriefed the games that Paly (Sam’s school) and Gunn have played recently.  It was super fun to listen to.

And Vava is a bald bro too so they talked about that (though Sam is no longer bald - -he still wears his beanie but under that is a full head of darker hair :)

And it was clear to me that Sam is highly thought of by Vava and that they both were thoroughly enjoying their conversation (Vava has always called Sam “big head” 😂 — because Sam has an *enormous* head — #seriously —  so when Zack arrived and saw Vava, he said “Do you know who I am?” And then identified himself proudly as “Big Head’s brother!” ❤️)  And now that Sam is 17, Vava interacts with him more as a peer/mentor/young adult so that is fun.

If this isn’t nice, I don’t know what is.

And Sam walked away from the conversation with a Saturday job too: marshaling the futsal program that Vava runs. And it’s paid! He’s also volunteering for the camp that Palo Alto Soccer Club runs but it’s not paid (gets volunteer hours though so is happy about that but was psyched to hear he could get paid - even tried to boost himself into the higher echelons of the pay scale 😂). 

Leukemia  may have taken away Sam’s ability to play soccer and futsal for now, but it will never take away his significance to this community and its significance to him. 

#FULeukemia

#TeamSam

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10 comments

Allie Lawler · Wednesday, January 11, 2023
Love that Sam has such a loving and supportive village!
J'Ann Schoonmaker Allen · Wednesday, January 11, 2023
Wow! What an awesome story! Go, Sam, go!
Jamie Merkel · Wednesday, January 11, 2023
love this!!
David Hornik · Wednesday, January 11, 2023
Fun to hear Vara’s name. We got to know him 20 years ago through a connection with our babysitter. Glad to hear he’s still deep in the Bay Area soccer world.
kathy howe · Wednesday, January 11, 2023
He seems to be loving the Gunn coaching job. He too knows everyone in this area - and his daughter is now 20 so that makes sense — he’s been around for awhile. He’s also a bald bro so they talked about that too 😊. Though Sam is currently full-o-hair — and it’s darker!
Claudia Hung · Wednesday, January 11, 2023
I loved reading this so much. Warms the heart. Yay for paid "work" - hard to call something you love work. ;) Giddy up, Sam. Congrats!
Joe Beninato · Wednesday, January 11, 2023
So great. You must be proud. Seeing our teens turn into young adults is an amazing process.
Andrew Korb · Thursday, January 12, 2023
Lots of love from Florida, home of great soccer! (Well, maybe not so much....)
Suchi Sairam · Saturday, January 21, 2023
"Big Head's brother" 😂😂😂 So so glad that Sam can still stay connected to his soccer community while he is fighting this fight. ❤️
Frederic GARDERES · Monday, January 23, 2023
Vava cares. This kinda guy helps building communities. So glad, Sam got to chat up with him. Positive vibes, I am sure